编辑同志:我的孩子已经上了小学,最近我发现他与同学攀比的现象越来越重。别的同学有什么样的铅笔盒,他也一定要有。甚至要买高档笔、新书包等。我该怎样教育他。李玲同志:据了解,攀比现象在孩子中正成为一种愈来愈严重的通病。有些孩子每天用各种方法来与自己的同伴进行比较,比衣服、玩具、学具等等,甚至比谁家有钱,谁的父母“官”大。 Editor’s Comrade: My child has been in elementary school and I recently found he comparisons with my classmates more and more. Other students have what kind of pencil box, he must have. Even to buy high-end pen, new bag and so on. How should I educate him? Comrade Li Ling: It is understood that the phenomenon of comparisons is becoming a more serious common problem among children. Some children use everyday methods to compare with their companions, and are bigger than clothes, toys, school tools, etc., and even have more money than their parents and their parents.