不少做父母的在教育孩子方面多少有些心理错位,不是用赏识的目光赞美自己孩子的优点,而是恨不得用放大镜去寻找孩子的弱点,更可怕的是处处拿别人孩子的长处去比自己孩子的短处。家长用别的孩子作例子为自己孩子树立榜样,目的在于“激将”,而事实上却易导致孩子自信的丧失和崩溃, 产生自卑心理。 Many parents in the education of children somewhat psychological dislocation, not with the appreciation of the eyes of their children praise the merits, but can not wait to use the magnifying glass to find the weaknesses of children, even more terrible is to take advantage of other children everywhere than their children The shortcomings. Parents use other children as examples to set an example for their children, with the purpose of “extremists”. In fact, they easily lead to the loss and collapse of their children’s confidence and their inferiority.