她一贯认为,男女婚姻的基础是爱情,如果爱情熄灭,那种婚姻保持了也没有意义。她更主张女同志要自尊自强,以革命事业为第一生命。如果婚姻发生挫折,女同志应振作起来,以工作为生活的主要依托。她绝不同意“老公要离婚,天就像塌下来”那种依赖丈夫的思想。 She has always believed that the basis of men’s and women’s marriage is love, that love does not mean that love is gone. She also advocates lesbian self-esteem, the revolutionary cause as the first life. If there is a setback in marriage, the lesbian should cheer up and take her work as the main support for her life. She would never agree with her husband’s thinking that “husband divorces, the sky is like falling down.”