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当我开始爱自己,我发现一切的痛苦和情感折磨只不过在警醒我:那是因为我违背了自己的本心来生活。今天,我明白了,这叫做“真实”。当我开始爱自己,我才懂得,试图把自己的意愿强加于旁人,是多么的无礼,尽管我明明知道,时机不对,那人也还没有做好准备,就算那旁人就是我自己。今天,我明白了,这叫做“尊重”。当我开始爱自己,我不再渴求不同的人生,我开始理解我周围的一切事物都让我成长。今天,我称之为“成熟”。
When I started to love myself, I found that all the suffering and emotional torture only warned me: it is because I violated my own heart to live. Today, I understand, this is called “real ”. When I started to love myself, I learned how impolite it was to try to impose my own will on others. Although I knew that the timing was wrong, that person was not ready yet, even if others were my own. Today, I understand, this is called “respect ”. When I started to love myself, I no longer crave for a different life, I began to understand that everything around me let me grow. Today, I call it “mature”.