小时候常听父辈们训导说,人不应该生气,爱生气的孩子不是“好孩子”。所以孩子生气发火时,有的家长是气不打一处来,有时反而比孩子的气还大。可是,如果我们认识到生气是免不了的,是人情绪的一种正常发泄,家长的责任不是压制而是疏导,那么,对付生气的孩子就变得容易些了。引起孩子生气的原因很多,包括挫折、担心、孤独、缺乏自信、要求得不到满足等等。由 When I was young, I often learned from my fathers that people should not be angry and angry children are not “good children.” So angry children angry, some parents do not hit one gas, and sometimes more than the child’s gas is also large. However, if we recognize that being angry is unavoidable, a normal release of human emotions, and parental responsibility is not repression but mediation, it becomes easier to deal with angry children. There are many reasons for angry children, including frustration, worry, loneliness, lack of confidence, demands can not be met and so on. by