有个女孩,母亲对她百般呵护,14岁了什么也不会干,有一天,母亲和她谈心,问她:“你什么也不会干,将来妈妈老了,怎么办呢?”女儿却说了让人很不可思议的话……为人师者?为人父母者?是啊,我们的孩子们到底怎么了?我们在面对学生的时候,往往会拿成人世界的道德标准来衡量他们,而忽略他们其实还是稚气为脱的孩子的事实,我们“想当然的”也许是他们“百思而不得其解”的。苏霍姆林斯基说过:“教育者应当深刻了解正在成长的人的心灵。”在学生犯错误时,如果 There is a girl, the mother cares her in every possible way, at the age of 14, she can not do anything. One day, the mother talks to her and asks her: “You will not do anything and the mother will be old in the future. What to do?” My daughter said something incredible ... Mastering people? Parenting? Yeah, what happened to our children? When we face students, we tend to measure them by the moral standards of the adult world, Ignoring the fact that they are actually childlike children, we may be “blindsided” perhaps because they are “too puzzling”. Suhomlinski said: “Educators should have a deep understanding of the souls of growing people.” When students make mistakes, if