朋友关系与君臣父子夫妇兄弟关系一道构成五伦,那是因为朋友关系是作为血缘关系的一种替代、延伸,从而成为中国传统社会中的最重要的人际关系之一的。比较一下鲁迅梁实秋的为友方式为友之道,对于我们加深认识鲁迅、梁实秋是颇为有益的。鲁迅与梁实秋在交友过程中,有一个共同的特征,那就是绝不丧失自己精神与人格上的独立性。梁实秋最乐于引用胡适的一句隐有所指的 The relationship between friends and the relationship between the monarch and the father and the son form a family of five, because friend relationship is an alternative and extension of kinship and thus becomes one of the most important interpersonal relationships in Chinese traditional society. To compare Lu Xun Liang Shih-ch’iu with friends for his friendship means that it is quite beneficial for us to deepen our understanding of Lu Xun and Liang Shih-ch’iu. In the process of making friends, Lu Xun and Liang Shiqiu have one common characteristic that they will never lose their spiritual and personality independence. Liang Shih-chuh most likely to cite Hu Shih’s implicit reference