单位精简,朋友被确定为第一批下岗对象之一,这下他可急成了热锅上的蚂蚁,几次三番跑来诉苦,讨对策,不断地给厂办领导送礼,求人说情,说无论如何也得争取留在原单位,否则,自己将一无所有了……几天后这位朋友又到我家,显然已经极为憔悴,但深陷的眼窝中明显有了一种不倔的光芒,为这点光芒,也便欣慰了。对于好的东西,我们尽全力去争取,这不能不说是大智大勇,但若在尽了力而发觉与己无缘时,能洒脱地挥手而去,则不能不说是更大的智慧和勇敢了。这时,你即便真的一无所有,说不定这还是你的福气呢,说不定你失去的恰恰是套在手脚上的镣铐,展示在眼前的将是整个世界。学会放弃,勇于放弃,其本身就是一种获取,获取了一颗打不败的心。举凡苦大穷深,割舍得一无所有的人才最有成功的契机,因为他们可以 Unit streamlining, friends were identified as one of the first batch of laid-off targets, under which he could become a hot pan on the ants, several times came to complain, discuss countermeasures, continue to give leadership to the plant office, asking people to affection, that no matter How can we have to stay in the original unit, otherwise, he would have nothing ... ... a few days later the friend went to my house, apparently very gaunt, but deep in the eye socket there is obviously a non-stubborn light, for this Light, but also gratified. As for good things, we try our best to win them. This can not but be said to be a wise and brave one, but if we try our best and wave ourselves away when we find ourselves out of touch with ourselves, we can not but say that we have greater wisdom and courage It’s At this moment, if you really have nothing at all, maybe this is your blessing. Maybe you just lost the handcuffed shackles and the show will be the whole world. Learn to give up, the courage to give up, itself is a gain, access to a heart beat unbeaten. Give all the hardships, deep and deep, give up all the talent the most successful chance, because they can