心理学研究发现,在现代婚姻里,投入——产出比变得很公平。如果你想幸福美满,就需要在婚姻里投入大量的时间和精力,使双方在情感、精神、物质等方面感到满足。现代婚姻幸福的秘诀在于婚姻内部的珍惜、持守、投入、交流与合作。一是婚姻关系优先。如果家庭是辆车,婚姻就是方向盘。婚姻不稳,家庭就会失序。婚姻关系还是动力机制,婚姻出故障,家庭会停滞不前。要充分认识婚姻关系的家庭意义和作用,既不要用老年权威挤压婚姻关系,也不要孩子为大,用亲子关系 Psychological research found that in modern marriages, the input-output ratio has become more equitable. If you want happiness, you need to invest a lot of time and energy in the marriage so that the two sides feel emotionally, spiritually, materially and so on. The secret of modern marriage happiness lies in the marriage of internal treasure, hold, input, exchange and cooperation. First, the priority of marriage. If the family is a car, marriage is the steering wheel. Unstable marriage, the family will be out of order. Marriage or motivation mechanism, the marriage fails, the family will stagnate. To fully understand the family significance and role of marital relations, we must neither suppress the marital relationship with old-age authority nor do we need children to be large and use parent-child relationship