现在,不少父母都热衷于对孩子进行超前教育,希望孩子将来能成为一个什么“家”,这种愿望是可以理解的。不过我认为,孩子一出生,就成了社会的一员,就同社会发生了不可分割的联系,因此,如果不注意培养孩子的社会意识,不注意加强孩子对人际关系重要性的了解,不注意培养孩子文明礼貌的习惯,孩子将很难适应以后的社会生活。我的孩子张润捷今年五岁,在家里活泼好动,可出了家门就沉默寡言,显得胆怯和腼腆。一次,我偶尔遇见熟人,叫他问候一声,他就是不说话。这种情况出现了多次,引起了我的注意。通过长时间观察,我发现,出现这种情况,跟平时我们对他在正常交往及礼貌行为方面要求过严有很大关系。孩子两岁那年,有一天,他跟邻居家小伙伴在木工房玩时,由于争 Now, many parents are keen on advanced education of children, hope the child can become a “home”, this aspiration is understandable. However, I think that once a child is born, he becomes a member of the society and has an inseparable connection with the society. Therefore, if he does not pay attention to cultivating a child’s social awareness and does not pay attention to enhancing children’s understanding of the importance of human relationships, Pay attention to cultivating children’s civilized polite habit, children will be very difficult to adapt to future social life. My child, Zhang Runjie, is five years old this year. He is active and active at home. He can be quiet and timid at home. Once, I occasionally meet acquaintances, asked him to greet, he is not to speak. This situation has appeared many times, caught my attention. Through long hours of observation, I found that such a situation was very much related to what we normally required of him during normal exchanges and courtesy. Two years old when the child, one day, he and his neighbors to play in the woodworking partner, due to controversy