由于师生之间冷漠疏远,学生学习厌烦压抑,教师与学生缺少互动,师生相互不认可,造成了师生关系的不和谐,对教育教学极为不利。究其原因,主要是教师管理方法简单,油田子女比较任性,师生之间有"代沟。新课程改革形势下的教育教学活动中,要正确处理教师的主导性和学生的主体性的关系,加强师生交流,重视素质教育,构建和谐课堂。 Due to indifference between teachers and students, student learning annoyance and depression, lack of interaction between teachers and students, teachers and students do not recognize each other, resulting in discord between teachers and students, education and teaching is extremely unfavorable. The reason is mainly that the teacher management method is simple, the oilfield children are more self-willed, there is a gap between teachers and students .In the education and teaching activities under the new curriculum reform situation, we should correctly handle the relationship between the teacher's dominance and the student's subjectivity , Strengthen exchanges between teachers and students, attach importance to quality education, and build a harmonious classroom.