10岁的儿子不喜欢干活,我就用金钱奖励的方式来鼓励他:刷碗5毛钱、洗袜子1元、拖地2元……钱不多,儿子却很踊跃,而且活儿也干得不错。但我没想到,后来他下楼给妈妈送钥匙也要价1元,帮忙照顾小弟弟也要5元钱。我不想再物质奖励了,但希望孩子能养成帮家人分担家务的习惯。在孩子成长的某个阶段,用物质来奖励,表达的是我们对孩子某个行为的肯定、鼓励和“你要继续这样哦”的期许。但随着年龄的增长,父母要有让这 10-year-old son does not like to work, I use the money to encourage him to encourage him: Brush 5 cents brush, wash socks $ 1, mopping $ 2 ... not much money, his son is very active, and the child is also active Well done. But I did not expect, and later he went downstairs to the mother also sent the key price of 1 yuan, to help take care of younger brother also 5 dollars. I do not want to re-material rewards, but I hope children can develop the habit of helping their families share housework. At a certain stage of your child’s growth, you are rewarded with material to express our approval of one of our children’s behavior, encouragement, and the promise of “you want to continue.” But with age, parents have to let this