明确哪些事是自己的事,哪些事是别人的事,守住自己的界限,也不要侵犯他人的界限这个世界只有三件事,自己的事、别人的事和老天的事。这三件事已经清晰划分了我们自己的界限。自己的事,只能自己做,不要依附他人;别人的事,只可以尊重和接受,不要强加干涉,也不应该干涉;老天的事,好好配合,天下雨就要打伞出去,生在一个贫穷的家庭,就得学会简朴生活。当一个人缺乏界限感常常把 Knowing which things are one’s own business, which ones are others, holding one’s own boundaries and not violating others’ boundaries There are only three things in this world, one’s own business, one’s business and one’s God’s business. These three things have clearly defined our own boundaries. Own things, can only do it by yourself, do not depend on others; others can only respect and accept, do not impose interference, should not interfere; God’s things, cooperate well, A poor family, you have to learn simple life. When a person often lacked the sense of demarcation