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胸襟宽一点事情往往是说起来容易,做起来难,尤其是具体到一些家庭琐事的时候,问题就变得复杂起来,“扯不断,理还乱。”因为人生观价值观不同,追求不同,性格、志趣、爱好、甚至家庭背景等差异而导致劳燕分飞的现象时有发生。曾有一段时间,人们见面便说:离了没有?虽是戏言,却也从中窥见了社会的一种景观,对待婚姻,人们再也不像以前那样仅仅持一种标准。其实,世上没有十全十美的事情,婚姻尤其如此。所谓天作之合往往只是一种用来赞美的话,一到实际中就不是那么一回事了。好婚姻大抵是彼此宽容造就的,因此,说白了,婚姻需要耐心,需要忍耐,需要彼此宽容。我的一个朋友,本来夫妻感情不错,儿子也聪明可爱,但二人却闹起了离婚。说起原因来,似乎也讲不出什么特别的东西。就只是说不合适,我想,可能致命之点在于两人的追求不一样。男的追求事业,讲求实在;女的追求享受,仰慕虚荣。加之,在双方家庭问题的处理上出现过一些分歧,于是,两人分手了。为了不影响即将高考
Wide-minded things are often easier said than done, especially when it comes to some family chores, the problem becomes complicated, “pull constantly, chaos ” because of the concept of values of life, the pursuit of different , Personality, hobbies, hobbies, and even family background and other differences led to the phenomenon of labor-Yan Fenfei have occurred. There was a time when people met and said: No? Although it is a joke, it glimpses a landscape of society and treats marriages. People no longer hold the same standard as before. In fact, there is no perfect thing in the world, especially marriage. The so-called fit for nature is often used only as a compliment, and in reality it is not the same thing. Good marriage is generally tolerant to each other created, therefore, plainly, the marriage needs patience, need patience, need to tolerate each other. A friend of mine, I had a good relationship between husband and wife, the son is clever and lovely, but the two raised a divorce. Speaking of reasons, it seems that what can not speak of anything special. Just say not appropriate, I think, perhaps the fatal point is the pursuit of two different. Men’s pursuit of the cause, stressing the truth; women’s pursuit of enjoyment, admire vanity. In addition, there have been some differences in the handling of family problems between the two sides, so the two broke up. In order not to affect the upcoming college entrance examination