曾经读过一篇美国小说,讲述一位初出茅庐的大学生需要和粗犷的劳动者拉近关系。为了取得对方信任,顺利沟通,大学生模仿他们的行为方式,改变了原先的穿着打扮,衣冠不整,说话粗声大嗓,同时夹杂着他们惯用的语句和脏话。谁料这一番努力,效果不佳,反而弄巧成拙,被模仿者把他当成怪物敬而远之。毛头小伙百思不得其解, Once read an American novel about a fledgling college student needs and rough workers closer relations. In order to achieve mutual trust and smooth communication, college students imitate their behavior, changing the original dress, disheveled, loud voice, mixed with their idioms and bad language. Who expected this one effort, ineffective, but self-defeating, was imitators regarded him as a monster at arm’s length. Feather pussy puzzled,