在心理和人格形成的过程中,每个人都会有意无意地受到他人的影响。美国社会学家曾提出这样一个概念:重要他人。它是指对个体自我发展(尤其是儿童时期)有重要影响的人和群体,即对个人智力、语言及思维方式的发展和行为习惯、生活方式及价值观的形成有重要影响的父母、教师、受崇拜的人物及同辈群体等。在孩子成长的不同年龄阶段,会受到不同的重要他人的影响,父母在早期占优势,后期则是教师和同辈群体的作用逐渐增加。由于大多数的孩子是在父母的陪伴下生活到18岁,所 In the process of the formation of psychology and personality, everyone is consciously or unconsciously influenced by others. American sociologists have put forward the concept of being important to others. It refers to people and groups that have an important influence on self-development of an individual, especially in childhood, that is, parents and teachers who have an important influence on the development and behavior habits, lifestyles and values ​​of the individual’s intelligence, language and thinking style, Worship figures and peer groups. At different stages of their child’s development, they are influenced by different important others. Parents predominate in the early stages. Gradually, the roles of teachers and peer groups increase in the later stages. As most children live with their parents until they are 18 years old