杨洋同学,首先要告诉你的是,你并不是一个坏孩子。你的这种心理,虽然很难让人接受,而且会伤父母的心,但它实际上是作为人的一种本能的自尊,只不过你的这种自尊在现实社会条件下,因人们过分看重金钱、地位而被扭曲成了一种自卑。古人云:“富贵不能淫,贫贱不能移,威武不能屈。” Yang Yang, the first thing to tell you is that you are not a bad boy. This kind of psychology of yours is difficult to accept and hurts the hearts of parents. However, it is actually an instinctive self-esteem for human beings, except that your self-esteem in real-world conditions is excessive. The emphasis on money and status has been distorted into a kind of inferiority. The ancients said: “The rich can not be kinky, the poor cannot move, the mighty can not bend.”