家庭教育已成为教育的关键一环。可事实如何呢?我们不无遗憾地看到,一个个盲点在闪现:有些家长本身素质不好,自身有失检点,醉心金钱、女人,整日玩牌、打麻将,使子女深受其害,甚至染上恶习;有些家长对子女过分溺爱、放纵、娇生惯养,或者过分苛求,期望值过高,而教育方法又过于严厉,体罚、软禁等方式层出不穷;更有一部分家长对子女不闻不问,把教育的责任全推给学校,推向社会;有的家长忙于赚钱等事务,把定“树大自然直”的信条,轻易地放弃了为人父母的神圣职责…… Family education has become a key part of education. But what about the facts? We are not disappointed to see that blind spots flashed on one after another: some parents are not good at quality, have their own deception points, become obsessed with money, women, play cards all day and play mahjong, Some parents are overly spoiled, indulgent, spoiled or overly demanding, their expectations are too high, their education methods are too harsh, corporal punishment, house arrest and other means are endless; some parents are ignorant of their children, Push the responsibility of education all the way to schools and push the society forward. Some parents are busy with making money and others. They easily set aside the sacred duty of parenting by setting the doctrine of “directing the nature of the trees.”