现在,有些年轻的父母是不知道“率子待客大有裨益”的。比如说,当有陌生的客人来到家里,孩子往往会感到好奇、新鲜,会目不转睛地用眼光打量着对方,还会情不自禁地欢呼雀跃,会饶有兴味地倾听父母与客人的交谈,有时还要插进来发表自己的议论——这些都属于正常的心理表现,但往往被父母一顿训斥:“不要‘人来疯’!大人说话,小孩不要插嘴!去!去!去!到外面玩去!”殊不知,这种“客来逐子”的做法只会使孩子小嘴一噘,或做个鬼脸跑开;说待重一点,还刺伤了孩子幼小的心灵,打击了孩子求知的积极性。其实,家中来了客人,对主人来说是个极好的教子机会,不仅应该让孩子在场,而且还应该让孩子也一起参与接待。此举好处甚多。一则可以让孩子学习文明礼貌、风度涵养,进行待人接物、应对的训练;二则可让孩子接触社会上各种人物,从而达到丰富阅 Now, some young parents do not know that “the rate of hospitality is of great benefit.” For example, when strangers come home, children tend to be curious, fresh, and intently looking at each other with their eyes on them. They can not help but cheer and listen attentively to their parents ’and guests’ conversations, sometimes Plug in to express their own comments - these are normal psychological performance, but often reproached by their parents meal: “Do not ’people crazy!’ Adults talk, children do not interrupt! Go! Go! Go outside! As everyone knows, this kind of ”guest-by-sub" approach will only make the child a mouth, or make a face run away; said to be a little heavier, but also stabbed the child’s young mind, hit the children seeking knowledge of enthusiasm. In fact, home to the guests, the owner is an excellent opportunity to teach children, not only should allow the presence of children, but also should let children also participate in the reception. This is a great benefit. One can allow children to learn civilized politeness, demeanor, conduct interpersonal and coping training; two children can be exposed to all kinds of social figures, so as to enrich the reading