现代教育越来越强调师生的互相尊重、平等,以建立一种和谐的交流氛围,其最终目的是要使学生的情感能在平等自愿的基础上得到合理迁移,从而增强学生社会适应能力和个性心理的发展。我们知道:传统的中国教育强严管、重纪律,把听话当做好学生的标准,强调“严师出高徒”。因而学生在教师面前表现得比较内向,不愿向老师吐露心声。要给学生创设一个宽松的学习环境,使师生之间能够平等地交流,让学生感受到老师是真诚地爱护他们,关心他们,是他们解决疑难的良师,是他 Modern education increasingly emphasizes the mutual respect and equality between teachers and students in order to establish a harmonious exchange atmosphere. The ultimate goal of modern education is to make the students’ emotions reasonably migrate on the basis of equality and voluntariness so as to enhance their social adaptability Personal psychological development. We know that traditional Chinese education is strong in discipline and discipline and takes obedience as a standard for students. It emphasizes that “strict teacher out of high school”. Therefore, students are more introverted in front of teachers, unwilling to reveal their feelings to the teacher. To create a relaxed learning environment for students so that teachers and students can communicate with each other on an equal footing so as to make students feel that teachers are really loving and caring about them and are good mentors for solving problems