这本书将告诉您:每个痛苦的人心中都有两个我:一个不完美的我;一个完美的我。不完美是人的本性,因而这个我是真实的;完美背离了人的本性,因而这个我是虚幻的。追求虚幻的我,就像抓着自己的头发上天,会将人分裂,会把心撕碎。那么,如何才能摆脱虚幻的我呢?唯一的方法就是找回真实的我。 This book will tell you: There are two me in every painful person’s heart: an imperfect me; a perfect me. Imperfect is the nature of man, so I am real; I depart from the very nature of man, so I am illusory. The pursuit of illusory I, like clutching his hair God, will split people, will heartbreak. So, how to get rid of the illusion of me? The only way is to retrieve the real me.