我父亲军人出身,脾气暴烈,一直如此。他在我幼时的印象里,从来没有和气地对我说过一句温和的话,总是凶神恶煞的样子。及至成年,他还打我耳光,依然把人往死里骂:我一看见你这个样子就来气!这样的话,多么伤人,尤其会导致被骂的人自己也跟着伤害自己,觉得自己真是无能,竟然惹得父亲如此厌恶。小时候我嘴讷,害怕跟人打招呼,只要家里来客人,就是末日,等客人一走,又要迎来一阵狂风暴雨:你看那谁谁家女儿嘴多甜,见人就喊,就我家这个跟土基壁子一样,撒不下一滴灰…… My father and military origin, violent temper, has been so. In my childhood impressions, he never spoke mildly to me in a mild, always vicious manner. And to adulthood, he also slapped my face, still scolded people to death: I see you look like this! How hurt, in particular, will lead to being scolded themselves followed hurt themselves, feel really Impotence, even provoked his father so disgusted. When I was young I was speechless, afraid to greet people, as long as the family to the guests, that is, doomsday, and other guests away, but also ushered in a stormy storm: you see who the daughter who mouth sweet, see shouting to my house with this Like the soil wall, sprinkle no less than a drop of ash ...