卓玛: 我最近好烦,因为我不知不觉爱上了一个女同学。为了让自己忘掉她,我和一些同学学会了抽烟,和同学们一起干坏事,比如打架什么的。我也不知道自己为什么要这样,我只想做一些坏事来早点平息我的烦恼,把她忘记。也许世间惟有爱情才有这样强大的力量,让我为我爱的人做坏事,减少我对她的想念。你能给我一些建议吗?我应当怎样做才能让自己不再痛苦。风飘梦逝 Zhuo Ma: I am very annoyed lately, because I fell in love with a female student. In order to forget about her, I and some of my classmates learned to smoke and do bad things with classmates, such as fighting something. I don’t know why I want to do this. I just want to do some bad things to calm down my troubles earlier and forget her. Maybe the only love in the world is such a powerful force. Let me do bad things for my loved ones and reduce my miss for her. Can you give me some advice? What should I do to make myself less painful? Fengpu Mengfei