小李今年30出头,正值事业上升期的他对自己有着很高的要求。工作中,他总是能让事情按照自己构想的方式和步骤进行,任何细枝末节的错误都逃不出他的“法眼”。在上司眼中,他是最上进的员工;在下属眼中他堪称“中坚”。然而,看似春风得意、风头正劲的小李却常常陷入焦虑、疲惫中。听到这里,你是否觉得小李的故事有点熟悉?的确,在我们的生活中,有许多对自己有着高标准、严要求的完美主义者,他们通常是人们眼中的精英。心理学将这类看起来极具上进心,对生 Li early this year 30, just as his career rise he has a very high demand for himself. At work, he always makes things follow the methods and steps of his own imagination, and any errors of minutiae can not escape from his “eyes”. In the eyes of his boss, he is the most motivated employee; in the eyes of his subordinates, he is called the “backbone.” However, seemingly breezy, thunder Li is often caught in anxiety and fatigue. Listen here, do you think Xiao Li’s story a little familiar? Indeed, in our lives, there are many perfectionists who have high standards and strict demands on themselves. They are usually the elites in their eyes. Psychology looks very motivated and opposite