“领导总瞧我不顺眼,我现在一见领导说话就紧张,感到压力很大”;“我大专毕业快一年了,单位里的人际关系太复杂,人人都戴着假面具”;“我无法适应目前的工作环境,我真不想再待下去了”;“走出校园后,每天伴随我的都是无穷的孤独与寂寞……”几乎每一天,心理咨询热线都要接到类似内容的电话咨询;也几乎是每一天,我们都要收到带有上述疑惑、困扰的来信。在这些人当中,尽管他们在年龄、性别、地域、职业等方面存在着大大小小的差异,但所有这些人都有这样一个共同的特征:他们全都是刚刚走上社会工作岗位的青年人。可以说,从校园生活转轨到社会生活,是人生的一个关键性的转折点。对一个人而言,此时此刻是适应良好,还是适应不佳,是积极地适应,还是消极地适应,或此或彼,决定着两条命运迥然相异的人生轨迹。如果说婴儿的断乳及青春期的反抗,分别是人一生中所面临的两次心理危机的话,那么步入社会这一关,无疑可算得上人生所面临的第三次心理危机了。我们组织的两篇文章解答了这些问题。 “I always look at the leadership is not pleasing to the eye, I now speak at the leadership of the talk on the tension, I feel a lot of pressure”; “I graduated nearly a year college, the unit’s interpersonal relationships are too complicated, everyone wearing a mask”; “I Can not adapt to the current work environment, I really do not want to stay on again ”;“ out of school, every day with me are endless loneliness and loneliness ... ... ”almost every day, counseling hotline should receive a similar content of the phone Consultation; also almost every day, we all want to receive a letter with the above doubts and distress. Among these people, all of them share the common feature that they are young people who have just embarked on social work, despite their large differences in terms of age, gender, geography, occupation and so on. It can be said that the transition from campus life to social life is a key turning point in life. To an individual, whether this time is well-adapted or poorly adapted at this moment, whether it is actively adapted or negatively adjusted, or whether it or not, determines the trajectory of life with two very different fates. If the baby’s weaning and adolescent revolt are the two psychological crises confronting people in their lives, the third psychological crisis facing their life can undoubtedly be regarded as a step toward socialism. Two articles organized by us answer these questions.