与那些充满畏惧的人、怒火中烧的人或遭受挫折的人交流很困难。不过,我们不要对自己在沟通上的障碍感到失望,毕竟再会交流的人也是一点一点地锻炼出来的。在与人交流的时候,我们应该巧妙地听和说,而不是无所顾忌地谈话。那么,怎么样巧妙地听和说呢?本文给你提供一些小秘诀,以供参考。即使对方看上去是在对你发脾气,你也不要立即还击。别人的情绪很可能是由于畏惧或受到挫败而造成的。做一个深呼吸,然后静静地数到十,让对方尽情发泄情绪,直至他(她)愿意说出他(她)真正 It is difficult to communicate with those who are full of fear, angry people or those who suffer setbacks. However, we should not be disappointed with our own barriers to communication. After all, those who will communicate with each other will also gradually exercise their skills. When talking to people, we should cleverly listen to and say, instead of talking without scruple. So, how cleverly to listen and say? This article gives you some tips for reference. Even if the other party seems to be angry with you, you do not fight back immediately. Other people’s emotions are likely to be caused by fear or frustration. Take a deep breath, and then quietly count to ten, let the other vent their emotions until he (she) is willing to say he (she) real