我有能力养活自己,这种强烈的价值感填补了内心那份缺失的安全感。身为单亲家庭的孩子,我还有个弟弟,爸妈也没有因为各自组建家庭而把我们推来推去的,相反,他们都想把抚养权攥在自己手上。但我是个没有安全感的女孩。小时候弟弟说了一句,你是女生,早晚都是泼出去的水;寄住在叔叔婶婶家时,他们也总说,女儿养大了早晚都是别人家的。我当时不明白,我明明流着跟 I have the ability to feed myself, this strong sense of worth to fill the heart of the missing sense of security. As a child of single-parent families, I still have a younger brother. Parents do not push us to push their own families. Instead, they all want to keep their custody in their own hands. But I am an insecure girl. When I was little, my brother said: You are a girl, and sooner or later she spouts water. When she is staying with her uncle and aunt, they always say that her daughter is raised sooner or later by others. I did not understand at that time, I obviously flowed with