甲乙两个好朋友吵架,乙打了甲一拳,甲在沙地上写了“今天我的好朋友打了我一拳”。又一次外出时,甲不小心掉进河里,乙把他救了上来,甲在石头上刻了“今天我的好朋友救了我一命”。乙问甲为什么要这样记录,甲说:“写在沙地上,是希望大风帮助我忘记;刻在石头上,是希望铭记您的恩德。”对待“怨”和“德”态度不同,境 Two good friends of A and B quarreled and B called a punch. A wrote on the sand, “My best friend hit me today.” When he was out again, A accidentally fell into the river and B saved him. A carved on the stone, “My best friend today saved my life.” Why did B ask A for this record? A said, “Written on the sand, it is hoped that the strong wind will help me to forget; on the stone, I hope to remember your kindness.” Different attitudes toward “grief” and “virtue” are different.