家庭是儿童成长的第一课堂。父母为人处事的态度、对事物的看法直接影响着孩子看问题的角度。作为家长,就要在平时的生活中树立正面形象,给孩子营造一个宽松、健康的家庭氛围,为孩子的健康成长打下基础。一、营造和谐的家庭氛围,用民主的方式教育孩子和谐的家庭氛围就是家庭的每一位成员间彼此沟通,相互尊重,地位平等,这种家庭成长起来的孩子,大多是心理健康、积极阳光的孩子。如果家长把孩子当成是家庭的附属品,采取专制的管理方式,孩子稍有错误轻则怒骂、重则责打,必然会使孩子产生畏惧、忌恨的心理。在小学阶段这些抵触情绪尚不明显,但随着年龄的增长,到了中学阶段随着心理生理的双重发育,孩子的自我意识越来越强,独立行 Family is the first class in children’s growth. Attitude of the parents doing things for the people, the perception of things directly affects the children to see the point of view. As a parent, we must establish a positive image in our daily life and create a relaxed and healthy family atmosphere for our children, laying a solid foundation for their healthy growth. First, to create a harmonious atmosphere of the family, a democratic way to educate children A harmonious family atmosphere is that every member of the family to communicate with each other, mutual respect, equality of status, the growth of such families are mostly children, mental health and active sunshine Children If parents treat their children as accessories to their families, they should adopt authoritarian management methods. When their children mistakes slightly, they curse rather than blame themselves. This will inevitably make their children feel afraid and hate psychology. In the primary stage of these resistance is not yet obvious, but with age, to the secondary stage with the dual development of psychological and physical, children’s self-awareness is growing, independent