当朋友心情不好时,我们通常都会模仿港剧的台词安慰对方:“发生这种事情谁也不想的嘛。做人呢,最重要是开心。”可是比利时的科学家认为不是所有人都需要这种安慰方式,这种方式对有些人可能还会起相反作用。科学家认为自信心不够强、常常对自己评价和期望较低的人,在遇到挫折和不开心的事的时候,只希望在乎他们的人能理解他们的想法,认为他们的行为 When friends are not in a good mood, we usually try to comfort each other by imitating the words of the Hong Kong drama: “Whoever does not want to do this thing?” Most people are happy to be human. "But Belgian scientists do not think everyone needs this The way of comfort, this approach may still have the opposite effect on some people. Scientists believe that self-confidence is not strong enough, often for those who evaluate themselves and expectation are lower, in the face of setbacks and unhappy things, only want to care about their people can understand their thoughts, that their behavior