许多家长都想通过与孩子交谈增加感情,并达到教育的目的。可有些家长总感到效果不佳,其主要原因是交谈的方式不正确。错误的交谈方式可分为两种,一是训斥式。家长居高临下,只会指责孩子这儿也不好那儿也不是,不耐烦听孩子谈他的想法。较小的孩子懂事不多,家长如不把道理说明白,对这种方式的交谈孩子倍感屈辱或压抑,其结果是亲子间的距离越来越大;二 Many parents want to increase their feelings by talking to their children and for educational purposes. Some parents can always feel the effect is not good, the main reason is the way the conversation is not correct. Wrong conversation can be divided into two kinds, one is reprimand. Parents commanding, will only accuse the child here is not good there nor is it impatient to listen to children talk about his ideas. Smaller children do not know much, parents do not understand the truth, the child’s feelings of humiliation or repression of this way of talking, the result is more and more between parents and children;