一、童年:失败的自我认同“我出生时,爸爸已经53岁了,妈妈是个精神病人,我们家很穷……”说起自己不幸的家庭,女生表现得很坦然,或许她已经不觉得这有什么“不幸”了。小时候,她一直没人管,在伙伴中常常受人欺负、被人瞧不起,童年的她便坚定了一个信念:不能让自己受人欺负!在个性上她逐渐表现出敏感、要强、自我的特征。在自我概念的形成中,她不断地用“我要变强大,我要做到好”来强化自 First, childhood: failure of self-identity “When I was born, my father is 53 years old, my mother is a mental patient, our family is poor ... ” Speaking of their unfortunate family, the girls behaved very calm, perhaps she has not What do you think of this “unfortunate ”. When she was young, she was unmanaged and was often bullied by her partners. She was despised by her childhood. She had a firm belief in her childhood that she should not be bullied by others. On her personality, she gradually showed the characteristics of being sensitive, strong, and self . In the formation of self-concept, she is constantly using “I want to be strong, I want to be good” to strengthen the self