在小说《爱玛》中,故事的本身体现了奥斯丁婚姻价值观念鲜明的时代特点,婚姻都要遵循传统社会价值观念的认同,否则就要付出一定的代价。本文对主人公爱玛性格形成的原因进行分析,对其爱情观念的保守主义思想进行阐述,并以爱情代价为主轴,对爱玛婚姻中理想与现实之间的矛盾进行探讨,在这其中出突显了作品的价值,即:奥斯丁把社会性与道德性作为爱情的责任,力求在爱情之美与社会道德之间寻求一种平衡。 In the novel Emma, ​​the story itself embodies the distinctive characteristics of Austen’s marriage values. Marriage must follow the traditional values ​​of social identity, otherwise, it will pay a certain price. This article analyzes the reasons for the formation of the heroine Emma’s character and elaborates on his conservative conception of love. At the cost of love, this article discusses the contradiction between ideal and reality in Emma’s marriage, The value of the work, namely: Austin to social and morality as the responsibility of love, and strive to seek a balance between the beauty of love and social morality.