学校在家庭教育工作中需要处理好以下三个关系。一是家庭教育与家庭教育工作的关系。家庭教育≠家庭教育工作,这是首先需要弄清楚的一个问题。“家庭教育工作”是服务于“家庭教育”的,是为了帮助和引导家长更好地实施家庭教育,帮助学生树立正确价值观、养成良好行为习惯、提高学习效果而提供的家教知识技能、成功经验做法等服务。学校以及教师不是家庭教育的实施者,家长或家庭 The school needs to handle the following three relationships in family education. First, the relationship between family education and family education. Family education ≠ family education, which is one of the first issues to be clarified. “Family education work ” is to serve “family education ”, is to help and guide parents to better implement family education, to help students establish the correct values, develop good habits and improve the learning effect provided by the tutor Knowledge and skills, successful experience and other services. Schools and teachers are not implementers of family education, parents, or families