如果事先沟通得不清楚,总是靠事后批评来让孩子长记性,谁会服?儿子有个幼儿园同学,一年级是去美国上的,二年级回到北京,进了某著名小学。有一次她妈妈问她:你觉得美国的小学跟中国的比,有什么不一样?她回答说:美国的老师总是在我们做事前跟我们讲得很详细,做完以后都是鼓励,不批评; If the prior communication is not clear, always rely on after criticism to let the child long memory, who served? Son has a kindergarten classmate, the first grade is to go to the United States, sophomore returned to Beijing, into a famous primary school. Once, her mother asked her: What is the difference between your primary school in the United States and that in China? She replied: Teachers in the United States always talk to us in great detail before we do things, encouragement afterwards, and do not criticism;