下面这些做法是不当的,这样做会毁了孩子。希望用这种办法的家长或教师不要再用这种方法教育孩子了。1.让孩子觉得自己什么都不行,没人赏识他。如学习不行,长相不行,交际不行,干家务不行,马虎、粗心,让家人为他受累……他没有行的地方。 The following are inappropriate practices, doing so will ruin the children. Parents or teachers who wish to use this method should no longer educate their children in this way. Let the children feel that they do nothing, no one appreciates him. Such as learning not, looks not work, not communication, doing housework not sloppy, careless, let his family suffer for him ... ... he did not have a place.