有些家长在教育子女时随意性强,好走极端。他们或对孩子喜爱得视如掌上明珠,家中的“小太阳”。对孩子的所做所为放任自流,迁就偏私;或对孩子的管教严而又严,把孩子驯服成听家长话的“小工具”。家庭教育中存在的这种或“宽松”、或“严厉”的“两极”现象,说到底是家长没能够注意把握教 Some parents are arbitrarily strong when they are educating their children, so exasperated. They or children like to be regarded as the pearl of the palm, the home of “Little Sun”. Do whatever you want to do with your child, or give up partiality; or discipline the child to be strict and disciplined, and tame the child as a “gadget” to listen to the parents. In the final analysis, this kind of “loose” or “severe” “bipolar” phenomenon that exists in family education is, in the final analysis, a failure of parents to pay attention to grasping