为顺利而有效地交流信息,人们说话总要考虑主客观条件。主观条件是指自己的身份、地位;客观条件是指说话的对象、场合、情势、时机等。常言说,“看莱吃饭,量体裁衣”,说话也要“看”和“量”,即审时度势。具体说,有如下“四看”:第一,看自己身份。这是先从主体因素考虑。开口之前,先想想自己的身份地位、同交谈对象的关系,以 In order to exchange information smoothly and effectively, people always consider subjective and objective conditions when they speak. Subjective conditions refers to their own identity and status; objective conditions refer to the object of speech, occasion, situation, timing and so on. As the saying goes, “Look at Lai food, tailored”, but also to say “look” and “quantity”, that is, when the situation. Specifically, there are four “looks” as follows: First, look at your own identity. This is the first consideration from the main factor. Before you speak, think about your status, your relationship with the person you are talking to