在交际场合，当听到表扬时，有的人往往激动得“说不出话”，有的则兴奋得不知“说什么”，有的只说“我没有那么好”，有的会说“这是我应该做的”，还有的说“比你差得远”，诸如此类不一而足。以上种种对表扬的反应，虽无可非议，却不足取。如果把交往中的表扬比作“口惠礼 In communicative situations, when praising, some people are often “agitated” with excitement, while others are excited about “what to say,” others say “I’m not that good,” some may say “ This is what I should do, ”and some say“ far worse than you, ”and so on. The above responses to praise, although beyond reproach, are inadequate. If the compliment in the communication compared to "mouth benefit ceremony