我的孩子刚上小学,人很聪明,功课也不差。但每天晚上做作业时总是磨磨蹭蹭,做做停停,边做边玩。每天都要做到很晚才能上床。这种日复一日的疲劳战影响着孩子的身心健康,也使我们一家不得安宁。今年初,孩子的外婆来了。她是一位退休教师,来家后她主动承担起辅导孩子学习的任务。外婆虽然疼爱孩子,但对孩子的教育非常严格,从不溺爱孩子。她认为,智力正常的孩子做作业磨蹭,原因在家长。家长溺爱孩子,从穿衣、洗脸到生活的各个方面,凡事全由家长包办代替,甚至到孩子入学后家长还是这样做。 My child just went to primary school, people are very smart, homework is not bad. However, I always do my homework every day, doing stop-and-go and doing while I am doing my homework. It is too late to go to bed every day. This day-to-day fatigue war affects the child’s physical and mental health and makes our family unhappy. Earlier this year, the baby’s grandmother came. She is a retired teacher, after coming home she take the initiative to undertake the task of counseling children to learn. Although grandma loves children, but education of children is very strict, never spoiled children. She believes that children with mental retardation do dawdle because of parents. Parents spoil their children, from dressing, washing their face to all aspects of life, everything is replaced by the parents, and even after the children are enrolled, parents do the same.