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“军人都有两个家。一个是军营这个大家,一个是家庭这个小家。一方面,在军营这个大家里,军人们非常清楚自己的坐标和位置,知道服从,知道纪律。另一方面,在自己家庭这个小家里,并不是所有的军人都能够找得着北,找得着纪律、规则,找得着自己的权利、责任和义务。在班里,你听班长的;在连里,你听连长指导员的;在机关里,你听领导的;在家里,你听谁的？在家里,听谁的——这是来自军人家庭里最真实最生动的社会学和人际关系学。听谁的,并不是我们关心的主旨,更不是过日子的主旋律。我们关心的是,该怎样把我们各自的小家过得和谐和美,有滋有味。”
"Soldiers have two homes, one is a barracks, and the other is a small family home.On the other hand, in the barracks, the soldiers are very aware of their coordinates and position, know obedience and know discipline, and on the other hand, In this small family home, not all soldiers can find the North, looking for discipline, rules, find their own rights, responsibilities and obligations in the class, you listen to the monitor; in the company, You listen to the commander of the commander; in the office, you listen to the leaders; at home, whom do you listen to? At home, listen to - this is the most realistic and vivid sociology and interpersonal learning from the military family. What we listen to is not the subject of our concern, nor is it the main theme of our life, and we are concerned about how harmony and beauty our respective small families enjoy.