“打是最不好的惩罚！”6岁的女儿右手背挨了我重重一巴掌(她把我的毛线团搞乱了),我故意装着不看她,没感觉到她有哭的迹象,却不料一阵短暂的沉默之后,听到她气乎乎地冒出这么一句话。看来,她对我这种粗暴的做法是很有看法的。 本来嘛,处理问题的方法有很多种,比如,解释说服、呵斥等,可我偏偏毫不犹豫地打了她一巴掌,怎么不让她生气！我对她的反应虽然有点惊讶,却还故意说: “你不听话,做了坏事,妈妈就要打你！” “你打人,你也不好。”女儿指责我,接着又添上一句:“两个人都不好！” 呵,进行批评与自我批评,倒蛮有自己的主见哩！ “The fight is the worst punishment!” My 6-year-old daughter suffered a heavy slap in the right hand (she cluttered my yarn pack), and I purposely pretended not to look at her, did not feel her signs of crying, Unexpectedly, after a brief silence, I heard her breathlessly issuing such a sentence. It seems that she is very opinionated on such rudeness as me. Well, there are many ways to deal with the problem, for example, to explain persuasion, scold, etc. But why did not I let her get slapped without hesitation! My reaction to her was a little bit surprised, but I also said: “You’re not obedient, you’re a bad guy and you’re going to beat you!” “You beat people, you’re not good.” My daughter accused me of adding: “Two people are not good!” Oh, criticism and self-criticism, quite have their own ideas miles!