导语:据一家大型门户网站的调查显示,随着生活水平的提高,如今在大中城市。67%的婆媳矛盾并不涉及房产分配、赡养责任、生男生女的分歧。而都是由小事引发的,关键是在生活琐事上谁当“指导员”、谁说了算的问题。媳妇认为,自己已经成年,自己的生活当然应完全自主,衣食住行的细节当然得按自己的喜好来安排;既然成立了小家庭,出去单住,为的就是少些束缚、多些自在。被热心过头的婆婆管头管脚,每天吃什么穿什么,上班是骑车还是乘车,都得早请示晚汇报,让年轻人想“独立”却不得。而婆婆对此也是满心的埋怨,自己一辈子积累的“经验”当然要找一个接班人,这是为媳妇好,更是为儿子好,替工作忙碌的小辈参谋张罗,洗洗涮涮干干活,替他们省了请钟点工的钱,都是好事啊,怎么现在的年轻人这么难伺候?好么,两边心里都有疙瘩,憋了一肚子委屈。我们来看看他们是怎么“婆说婆有理,媳说媳有理”的。 Lead: According to a large portal survey, with the improvement of living standards, now in large and medium-sized cities. 67% of the conflict between mother and daughter does not involve the allocation of real estate, maintenance responsibilities, male and female differences. And are caused by small things, the key is in the life of trivial who “instructor ”, who said the final question. Daughter-in-law that he has grown, of course, their own life should be completely independent, basic necessities of life, of course, according to their own preferences to be arranged; since the establishment of a small family, go out to stay alone, for less restraint, more comfortable. Enthusiastic mother-in-law is pin-up, what to eat every day to eat, go to work is a ride or ride a car, have early please report night report, so that young people think “independence ” but not. The mother-in-law complain about it is also full of life, his life accumulated “experience ” Of course, looking for a successor, this is good for the wife, but also for his son is good, for busy junior junior staff Zhang Luo, wash rinse rinse Work for them to save time, please part-time money, are good, ah, how young people now waiting so hard? Well, on both sides of the heart have a knot, hold back a grievance. Let’s see how they are. “Poetics are reasonable, and daughter-in-law is rational.”