在她照顾着家与三个小孩子时,兰蒂的生活成了一种不定的模式。“我常常是没有心绪地把食物放进口里,我只是感到累,生活没有意思。整天我都感到自己像做梦一样。一切都只是。‘妈妈,我要……’与‘妈妈,我需要……’” 一天夜里,她强烈地感到自己的情绪到了极限。她让孩子们单独在自己的房间里,自己出外走一圈。她跑到她妹妹那里,她直截了当地大声宣布。“如果我不离开那房子,我就得疯了。” When she took care of her family and three little children, Randy’s life became an uncertain pattern. “Often I feel tired, I have no meaning in my life.I feel like a dream all day.It’s all just ’Mom, I want ...’ and ’Mom, I need ... ’’ One night, she felt strongly that her emotions had reached its limit. She let children go out alone in their own room. She ran to her sister, she announced loudly and straightforwardly. ”If I do not leave the house, I’m going crazy."