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11 兵兵又犯错误了。在厨房忙饭菜的妈妈气得直嘀咕:“早知你这样没出息,当初还不如不生你,……反正你是学不好了,我也不抱希望。”孩子在一旁委屈得眼泪直掉。其实,兵兵也不是故意要犯错误,他本想帮妈妈淘米,只是铝锅太大,手没拿稳,才打翻了米的。在这里,我不想就兵兵淘米这件事判个谁是谁非,而是希望这位母亲对孩子不要说气话。批评孩子应该掌握好“度”,不能用气话和出格的话来代替正常的说理教育。也许,家长说了心里很痛快。殊不知,有些气话往往比揍孩子一顿更伤孩子的自尊心,更易使孩子产生遗弃感和自卑感,个别孩子甚至会破罐破摔,自暴自弃;影响孩子性格的正常发展。虽然,我们也知道说气话仅仅是家长的一时之气,或者是“恨铁不成钢”的结果,但,教育孩子最好还是等气消后,对
11 soldiers again make mistakes. Busy meals in the kitchen mom gas whispered: “I knew you did not pay off, had not as good as you are not born ... ... anyway, you learn bad, I do not have hope.” Off In fact, the soldiers did not mean to make mistakes, he wanted to help my mother Taomi, but the aluminum pan is too large, the hand did not get steady, just knocked over the rice. Here, I do not want to judge who is the right one on the issue of soldiers and rice washing, but I hope the mother will not say anything to her children. Criticism of children should master the “degree”, can not be used to speak of words and words to replace the normal reasoning education. Perhaps, parents said my heart is very happy. As everyone knows, some angry words often beat the child meal more hurt the child’s self-esteem, more easily make the child have a sense of abandonment and inferiority, individual children will break cans broken, give up on themselves; affect the normal development of children’s personality. Although we also know that speaking of anger is only a moment of pampering or a result of “turning iron into steel,” it is best to educate a child after waiting for it to disappear.