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主持人:益西卓玛欢迎来信地址:江西省南昌市红角洲赣江南大道2888号江西教育发展大厦1306室《初中生之友》编辑部伊妹收邮编:330038E-mail:yimeijiejie@sina.com伊妹姐姐:我的爸爸妈妈经常会因为一些小事吵架,我就是在他们的大声叫嚷中长大的。有时候我真希望他们干脆离婚算了,可是再想想,没有了爸爸妈妈任何一个,我都更可怜。真不知道怎么办好。居妍每个人处理问题的方式不一样,有人喜欢用温和的态度解决问题,有人可能习惯用叫喊。作为小孩子的你,改变父母多年形成的习惯不现实,但是可以试着用些小办法缓解,比如在父母情绪激动之前分散他们的注意力,比如替他们传递平时互相表扬和赞赏对方的话。伊妹姐姐
Moderator: Yixi Zhuoma Welcome Letter Address: Yimei Zou, editorial department of “Friends of Junior High School Students”, Room 1306, Jiangxi Education Development Building, No.2888 Lijiang South Avenue, Hongjiao, Nanchang, Jiangxi Province, PRC Postcode: 330038 E-mail: yimeijiejie@sina.com Com sister sister: My mom and dad often quarrel with small things. I just grew up in their shouts. Sometimes I really hope that they will just be divorced, but think about it again. I have no father or mother, and I am even more miserable. I really don’t know what to do. Everyone has a different way of dealing with problems. Some people like to use a gentle attitude to solve problems. Some people may be used to yelling. As a child, it is unrealistic to change the habits that parents have formed over the years, but you can try to ease them with small methods, such as distracting your parents before they get emotional, such as giving them personal praise and appreciation. Emei sister