自古以来,言传就是家长教育孩子的主要方式,社会发展到今天,教育手段不断更新,丰富多彩,更加直观,生动活泼,但言传仍然和身教一样是有力的教育方式。从这个意义上说,是否注重言语艺术、是否善言就成了家长能否教育好孩子的一个重要因素。善言者,春风化雨,事半功倍;不善言者,唠唠叨叨,事倍功半。注重言语艺术即抓住时机,注意讲话的方式和讲话的技巧,将所要表述的意思准确无误地表达出来,使孩子能够领会父 Since ancient times, the spread of words is the main way for parents to educate their children. As the society develops today, the means of education are constantly updated, colorful, intuitive and lively. However, the teaching of words is just as powerful as education. In this sense, whether paying attention to speech art or not is a key factor for parents to educate their children. Good speaker, spring breeze, do more with less; unspeakable, nagging, less effective. Pay attention to speech art that seize the opportunity, pay attention to the way of speech and speech skills, the meaning of the expression to be accurately expressed so that children can understand the parent