夫妻之间经常吵吵闹闹,无疑是要影响感情的。偶尔吵吵,固然难以完全避免,但是如果不加重视,小吵也可能变成大吵,偶尔吵也可能变成经常吵。怎样才能避免夫妻间的争吵呢?这就需要把夫妻关系建筑在牢固的爱情基础上。周总理和邓颖超同志提出的夫妇间的“八互”:互敬、互爱、互信、互勉、互帮、互让、互谅、互慰,可以说是调适夫妻关系,增进夫妻感情的根本方法,也可以谓之曰“治本”。当然,真要做到这“八互”也不容易,需要夫妻双方共同努力。然而,对于争吵业已经常发生的夫妻来说,在‘治本“的同时,还不应忽视”治标“。在争吵即将发 Often noisy between husband and wife, no doubt to affect the feelings. Occasionally noisy, although difficult to avoid, but if you do not pay attention, a small noisy may become a noisy, occasionally noisy may become often noisy. How can we avoid the quarrel between husband and wife? This requires the husband and wife relationship based on a solid foundation of love. Premier Zhou and Premier Deng Yingchao’s ”eight mutual“ proposals: mutual respect, mutual love, mutual trust, mutual encouragement, mutual help, mutual accommodation, mutual understanding and mutual comfort can be said to be the basis for adjusting the relationship between husband and wife and promoting the feelings of husband and wife Method, you can also call it ”cure“. Of course, really want to do this ”eight mutual “ is not easy, both husband and wife need to work together. However, for those couples who have been involved in a quarrel for a long time, they should not neglect their ”palliatives." In the midst of the quarrel