相信很多人都有这种感觉:对越亲的人越没耐心,越容易生气、发火。这是为什么呢?原因一:对亲人的期望过高相对亲人来说,我们往往对其他人更有耐心,更不容易发火。因为我们往往“假设”其他人不了解我们,要取得他们的了解和配合是需要充分沟通的。但面对亲人,我们的耐心很有限,因为我们认为亲人应该是最了解、最支持我们的。一般来说,越亲近的人就越能够相互理解和支持,但并不是在所有的事情上都能达成充分的理解,一旦碰到什么事情不顺利,我们常常会想:“别人不理解我也就罢了,怎么你也不理 I believe many people have this feeling: the more impatient the more pro-people, the more easily angry, angry. Why is this? One reason: the expectations of their loved ones Excessive Relative relatives, we tend to be more patient to others, but not easy to get angry. Because we often ”assume “ others do not understand us, to obtain their understanding and cooperation is the need to fully communicate. However, in the face of relatives, our patience is limited because we think our loved ones should know and support us best. In general, the closer you are to each other, the more you understand and support each other. However, not all things are fully understood. Once something goes wrong, we often think: ”Others do not understand me Just what, you how ignore you