常言道：“严师出高徒”。对孩子严格要求，才能把他们培养成才。怎样才能算严格？一位年轻母亲伤感地对我说：“我对孩子是严格的，他不听我就打，有时罚跑。可是，他反倒越来越不听话”。这位家长的作法不对。教育家认为，拷打和处罚永远不能作为一种影响儿童心灵和良知的好 As the saying goes: “Master Shi out of high disciples.” Strict requirements of children, to train them to become talented. How to be strict? A young mother sadly said to me: “I am strict with my children, he did not listen to me, and sometimes ran fine, but on the contrary, he is getting less and less obedient.” The parents are not doing the right thing. Educators believe that torture and punishment can never be good as a child’s mind and conscience